Support
Home Up Prevention Intervention Support CASA Program Public Presentations

 

Harbor House provides referrals to counselors and free support groups for any Non-offending caregiver (NOC) of a child who has been the victim of sexual abuse.  We also provide referrals to Heroes, Great & Small, a support and activity group for the child and his/her siblings who have been the victims of sexual abuse.

Discovering that a child you love has been sexually abused is a shattering experience for many parents and caregivers.  People often report feelings of grief, intense anger, disbelief, guilt, fear, a sense of betrayal, confusion about "the system" and a loss of control.

The purpose of the NOC group is to provide support and education to the parents and caregivers of sexually abused children.  Sessions are held weekly in the Fall and Spring.  Families are given a schedule of topics to be covered and are encouraged to attend as many sessions as possible.

The goal of the group is to help caregivers work though their own concerns so that they are better prepared to help the child.  This is an excellent opportunity for individuals to see that they are not alone--others have shared similar questions, feelings and fears.

The NOC group runs in conjunction with Heroes, Great & Small.  For added convenience, both groups meet at the same time/location.  The program is free-of-charge to participants.

Topics covered include:

  • How sexual abuse occurs and why children often wait so long to tell

  • Dealing with conflicting feelings about the abuser

  • Behaviors sexually abused children may exhibit and how to respond

  • When to seek professional help for yourself and/or your child

  • Community resources available

  • What the medical evidence or lack of it means for your child and your case

  • The role of different agencies in, "the system," and how a case progresses through it, and who is available to help you along the way

  • How to talk to your family members, particularly other children, about the abuse

For more information, please contact us.