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If your child discloses that abuse has occurred:
- Follow the advice of the professionals that are working with you and your
child.
- Believe your child.
- Tell the child that you are proud of him/her for telling.
- Get counseling for your child--and do it as soon as possible. (Even
if it "seems" that your child does not need counseling.)
- Develop a support system for yourself. This may include counseling,
speaking with trusted family and friends etc., etc.
- Review the "Now What?" information booklet supplied to you by
Harbor House. If you did not receive this booklet, contact
us or review the booklet online by clicking
here. This booklet contains valuable and important information
that will assist you and your child through this difficult stage of you/your
child's recovery.
If your child denies that abuse has occurred:
- Follow the advice of the professionals that are working with you and your
child.
- Teach your child personal safety skills. (For more information, contact
us.)
- Tell your child that NOBODY should touch them inappropriately. Tell
your child that NOBODY should make them do anything that makes them feel
uncomfortable. Be sure to consider your child's age when explaining.
- Tell your child that you will NEVER be angry at them for telling--even if
they waited a long time to tell.
- Listen to your child. Keep open lines of communication with your
child about all issues in the child's life.
- Do not question your child about the allegations.
For more information, do not hesitate to contact
us.
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